There are several rules of thumb one should follow if they are looking to attend a Swingers Club or On-Premise Swingers Party. The one right up at the top should be: Always arrive as a couple and always leave as a couple! Never leave your partner behind!
On-Premise Swingers Parties: Arrive on time. It's not fashionable to turn up late to an On-Premise Swingers Parties. Couples usually do a lot of mingling in the beginning and are breaking the ice so arriving early gives you the necessary time to ease into the night and not feel rushed or pressured. The night usually gets going rather quickly and you may make people who have already begun playing feel awkward and uncomfortable.
Be courteous : The swing lifestyle is full of insecurities and uncertainties. Being courteous, honest and open minded can help ease this and make your experiences with new couples more enjoyable.
Be friendly : Be friendly with everyone! You may find you have other things in common or they may introduce you to people who you are interested in.
Respond to all invitations : Respond to all invitations even if you do no plan on attending. Reply either by a phone call or email thanking them for the invitation.
Go prepared : Take with you whatever you will need, toothbrush, comb, perfume/aftershave, condoms, robe, liquor etc. Good grooming is always a plus in this lifestyle. Always take a robe or negligee with you, you will find it more comfortable as the evening progresses. Swingers always try to look their best!
Your health and hygiene : The main thing that will turn your potential partners off will be bad breath or body odor. Swingers pride themselves on looking and feeling good at all times so you should always look and feel your best as well.
Only do what`s fun for you : The whole idea is that you enjoy yourself and that`s why you are in the swingers lifestyle. Do not be pressured into doing anything you do not want to do with anyone you do not want to do it with. Always say no if you do not want to play with that couple or single female or male. A simple and polite "No, thank you" is all that is needed.
Do not be pushy : If you enjoy swinging with someone let them know in a nice, inviting way and if they say no, it is up to them. If they say no, do not carry on and try to sweet talk them and flirt with them as this can do a lot more harm than good.
Alcohol: Most people like a few drinks at a party. Drinking socially is fine as it can provide a good social platform to get to know people and it can also help you to relax. Overindulging is not a good thing though as it can hinder ones physical and mental performance and is a turn off for many people.
Practice safe sex : The use of condoms should not offend anyone. It is simple a means to protect all parties involved.
Do not take someone to a party who is not fully informed : This is an obvious one but never take anyone to a party who does not know what they are getting into as it could be very embarrassing for everyone, and probably will cause problems.
The group room is for group swinging : If you want privacy then we strongly encourage you to not go into the group room and if you take your partner with you into the swinging room you can expect others to ask to join you, obviously you still have the right to refuse.
Do not disturb the swinging enjoyment of others : If you are in a bedroom or the group room, do not disturb the swinging of others with prolonged talk.
Do not be a bedroom cruiser : Don`t walk into bedrooms, peel back curtains, turning on lights and bothering those already playing and having fun.
Enjoy yourself : Probably the most important one! Approach everything with an open mind and positive attitude and before you know it you will be act ing out all of your fantasies!
