There are several rules of thumb one should follow if they are looking to attend a Swingers Club or On-Premise Swingers Party.  The one right up at the top should be:  Always arrive as a couple and always leave as a couple!  Never leave your partner behind!

On-Premise Swingers Parties:  Arrive on time.  It's not fashionable to turn up late to an On-Premise Swingers Parties.  Couples usually do a lot of mingling in the beginning and are breaking the ice so arriving early gives you the necessary time to ease into the night and not feel rushed or pressured.  The night usually gets going rather quickly and you may make people who have already begun playing feel awkward and uncomfortable.

Be courteous : The swing lifestyle is full of insecurities and uncertainties. Being courteous, honest and open minded can help ease this and make your experiences with new couples more enjoyable.

Be friendly : Be friendly with everyone!  You may find you have other things in common or they may introduce you to people who you are interested in.

Respond to all invitations : Respond to all invitations even if you do no plan on attending.  Reply either by a phone call or email thanking them for the invitation.

Go prepared : Take with you whatever you will need, toothbrush, comb, perfume/aftershave, condoms, robe, liquor etc.  Good grooming is always a plus in this lifestyle.  Always take a robe or negligee with you, you will find it more comfortable as the evening progresses.  Swingers always try to look their best!

Your health and hygiene : The main thing that will turn your potential partners off will be bad breath or body odor.  Swingers pride themselves on looking and feeling good at all times so you should always look and feel your best as well.

Only do what`s fun for you : The whole idea is that you enjoy yourself and that`s why you are in the swingers lifestyle. Do not be pressured into doing anything you do not want to do with anyone you do not want to do it with. Always say no if you do not want to play with that couple or single female or male.   A simple and polite "No, thank you" is all that is needed.

Do not be pushy : If you enjoy swinging with someone let them know in a nice, inviting way and if they say no, it is up to them. If they say no, do not carry on and try to sweet talk them and flirt with them as this can do a lot more harm than good.

Alcohol: Most people like a few drinks at a party.  Drinking socially is fine as it can provide a good social platform to get to know people and it can also help you to relax. Overindulging is not a good thing though as it can hinder ones physical and mental performance and is a turn off for many people.

Practice safe sex : The use of condoms should not offend anyone.  It is simple a means to protect all parties involved.

Do not take someone to a party who is not fully informed : This is an obvious one but never take anyone to a party who does not know what they are getting into as it could be very embarrassing for everyone, and probably will cause problems.

The group room is for group swinging : If you want privacy then we strongly encourage you to not go into the group room and if you take your partner with you into the swinging room you can expect others to ask to join you, obviously you still have the right to refuse.

Do not disturb the swinging enjoyment of others : If you are in a bedroom or the group room, do not disturb the swinging of others with prolonged talk.

Do not be a bedroom cruiser : Don`t walk into bedrooms, peel back curtains, turning on lights and bothering those already playing and having fun.

Enjoy yourself : Probably the most important one!  Approach everything with an open mind and positive attitude and before you know it you will be act ing out all of your fantasies!

Swinging, sometimes referred to as the swinging lifestyle, has become the topic of many conversations and has been the focus of many shows, such as, Oprah & Tyra.  Many swingers tend to enjoy this lifestyle privately while others live out their fantasies and dreams in a more open forum.

Thousands of swingers clubs and swingers parties have sprung up all over the world to give everyone, who is interested in the lifestyle, a chance to have fun and participate at their own pace.  

The swingers lifestyle is exceptionally unique, incredibly sexxy and very diverse. Some couples are completely open and love anything and everything thrown their way while others enjoy taking it slow and enjoy smaller more intimate encounters. Most swingers live very ordinary lives as doctors, lawyers, teachers and mothers. However, once the weekends roll around look out as they are ready to let loose. Whether it be going to a swingers club or swingers party, attending a private house party, or just having some friends over they are ready to make the best of the evening.

There are many levels of involvement and in certain situations expectations of sexual activity so make sure you know which type of party you are attending before arriving. Maybe you are looking for a hot bisexual female or are looking to exchange spouses. Just be open and honest with those you are swinging with and you are bound to have an amazing time.  Many swingera already know what they enjoy and what they are looking for while others may be new and still finding their way through. 

We are always looking for other swingers to share their stories and thoughts about the swingers lifestyle. Once you start meeting all of these new friends we encourage you to invite them to create a profile on SexxyMofo.com so you can keep in touch and continue making new plans to get together.

Soft swinging - This usually involves either watching another couple or possibly participating without any sexual intercourse. It may also include foreplay with other partners, sometimes including oral sex, but no vaginal penetration will take place. Many couples start off with soft swinging as this is a great way to explore the swingers lifestyle.

Full Swapping - This type of swigning is where  couples swap partners and have sexual intercourse with each other's partners.  This includes orgies and it is great for exhibitionist and voyeurs , who can show off or just enjoy watching their partner play..

When you enter the swingers lifestyle you must be very health conscious, always practice safe sex and make sure you and your partner are disease free.

More and more people are getting into the swinger lifestyle as this give couples and individuals a break from the every day stresses in their daily life.

Sex is certainly one of the best antidotes to relieve stress. A swinger lifestyle teaches you to give and take pleasure like the way you have never experience before.

Online swinger clubs help you to get in touch and later get in bed with people who are from different regions, locales or even nations.

Swinging does bring open minded couples together as they are able to share fantasies and experiences together and truly get to know one another.

If your relationship has a strong emotional bond from the beginning you will talk more about what is important to each other and what you are both looking to get out of this swingers lifestyle....and not only about the sex part!

Discovering things about your partner that you didn't know can certainly help strengthen the bond between you....especially if those things are sexual.

Sexual desires and fantasies are not easy to talk about for most people, but the single most important pre requisite for a successful swinging experience is to discuss boundaries before you take the plunge. Rushing into something head first can have dire consequences, which is another reason why swingers clubs are running beginners nights. It helps them and it helps you by finding out what your relationship is really like before you do something that you both may possibly regret.

What you will find in the swinging scene is that a great deal of people have a preference for a particular way to swing (a threesome, foursome or group swinging) and being open from the beginning will enable you to find what excites you the most as well.

Defining these borders is critical for a beginner or newbie swinger, and it isn't easy to do without trying it.

Are you open minded?  Then give swinging a shot...but always be open and honest with one another!