The World’s leading adult dating swinger’s website has cordially invited all New York swinger couples to the top rated swinger’s event of the year. The event is said to be one of the most pleasurable parties of the year. The 6th Annual White Party is the largest and hottest swinger’s event in New York City with well over 500 of the hottest couples and single females attending year after year. For this year, you can expect this to be one of the sexiest festivities of 2010.

Sexxymofo.com proudly invites New York swinger couples and the hottest single females to personally join the hedonistic celebration at the 6th year of Sexxymofo.com. You will come to find one of the hottest nights of your life is just hours away. The evening of like-minded fun and play will attract some of sexist personalities in the industry and in the lifestyle. The Annual White Party has been known to draw some of the most attractive girls in all of New York City.

Why is this swinger’s party so hot? Let’s start with the impact of the color white everywhere around you. It’s gorgeous, sexy and it produces a feeling of warmth. The white only dress code is exciting in the dark splendor of the party’s warmth heating up around you. It is as if the room in all its immaculate darkness evokes a perception of light. You just have to witness Manhattan’s top group-sex hotspots for swingers, couples and beautiful single girls.

Charly Conchita Carlyle, Ph.D., Sexual Psychologist for Sexxymofo.com remarked that, “A live sadomasochism (S&M) style domination and submission performance for your enjoyment will be performed for all guests in attendance. The most important thing at this swinger’s party is how it will provide New York couples with a perfect opportunity to truly experience and enjoy some of the more important things in life, like erotica.”

Sexxymofo.com offers all guests at this year’s swinger’s lifestyle party, a place to play around with what it means to be sexy. Sexxymofo.com attracts only the hottest couples in the lifestyle. According to Sexxymofo.com, “It will be a night of feeling a community of togetherness and connection. The event is not just about partying together, but playing together.”

The Swingers event will be at the lux and delectable ROOM SERVICE in Manhattan. With decor that encourages play, private areas and secluded spaces, this is the perfect venue for this event. Local couples in the Lifestyle are encouraged to come and play at the sexiest event of the year in the heart of New York.

About Sexxymofo.com

SexxyMofo.com is the adult dating website and personal resource for adult swinger ads for sexy swinger couples and single girls in the lifestyle across the United States of America. At SexxyMofo.com you can meet other swingers, chat, swap photos, and find swinger parties in New York and swinging parties and swinger club events in any part of the United States.

For more information on the 6th Annual Sexxymofo.com White Party 2010, go to: http://www.sexxymofo.com/whiteparty.htm or check out local swinger couples at http://www.sexxymofo.com

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Get an up close and personal, candid look behind the scenes of An Open Invitation: A Real Swingers’ Party in San Francisco with these exclusive clips!

An OPEN invitation is first and foremost a love story. The tale of a marriage not in trouble but which is elevated and erotically charged by a chance encounter with a couple over diner who plays in the alternative lifestyle, the movie follows the arc of how a couple moves from a staid, predictable and happy life to one filled with adventure, phenomenal sex and, most importantly, open communication about their desires.
The movie has been called one of the best couples films of all time, using great on-location footage, subtle acting and well-crafted dialog to build some of the most believable and compelling sex scenes ever filmed. In addition to career-defining performances that earned the film 13 AVN nominations (including best film, best actress/actor, best girl/girl, best orgy), An OPEN Invitation intersects with an actual swingers party for the final scene. 127 real swingers got busy with the stars and each other to create a visually stunning cinematic milestone in adult film history. An OPEN Invitation redefines the standard for feature film in the industry.

Swinging does bring open minded couples together as they are able to share fantasies and experiences together and truly get to know one another. If your relationship has a strong emotional bond from the beginning you will talk more about what is important to each other and what you are both looking to get out of this swingers lifestyle….and not only about the sex part!

Discovering things about your partner that you didn’t know can certainly help strengthen the bond between you….especially if those things are sexual.

Sexual desires and fantasies are not easy to talk about for most people, but the single most important pre requisite for a successful swinging experience is to discuss boundaries before you take the plunge. Rushing into something head first can have dire consequences, which is another reason why swingers clubs are running beginners nights. It helps them and it helps you by finding out what your relationship is really like before you do something that you both may possibly regret.

What you will find in the swinging scene is that a great deal of people have a preference for a particular way to swing (a threesome, foursome or group swinging) and being open from the beginning will enable you to find what excites you the most as well.

1. Defining these borders is critical for a beginner or newbie swinger, and it isn’t easy to do without trying it.
2. Are you open minded? Then give swinging a shot…
3. But always be open and honest with one another!

The basics of Swinging — see Swingers 101: Information for Adult Swingers New to the Swinging Lifestyle — is found in the openness of people active in the sexual swinging lifestyle. The Swingers Lifestyle is as simple as swing, finding oneself living out loud an intimate sexuality fulfilled by the sexual nature of “the swinging lifestyle,” and to experience an engagement of several non-monogamous acts of partner swapping.

Some of the intimate sexual activities are:

• Full swinging — see Full Swap Swinging — is having penetrative sex with someone other than one`s partner
• Soft swinging — see Soft Swap Swinging — is kissing, stroking, or having oral sex with a third or fourth person
• Threesomes — see Threesome –  is a form of group sex involving three people of any combination
• Group sex – see Group Sex — is sexual behavior involving three or more participants at the same time
• Voyeurism — see Voyeurism – is the sexual interest in or practice of spying on people engaged in intimate behaviors, such as undressing, sexual activity, or other activity usually considered to be of a private nature  
• Exhibitionism – see Exhibitionism (or flashing) – is the act of briefly exposing one’s body in a usually sexual way, acceptable or not depending on context

A “unicorn” is a single female that comes out to swinger parties, typically to engage in threesomes or group sex.  Girls with such an open mind are rare, hence the name “unicorn”. 
All you Sexxy Mofo members know there are more than a few unicorns on our site.  So, you already know where to pick up these women.  Now, what do you do with a unicorn when you have arranged for a hook-up?  It is surprising that many couples may not know how to act around and treat a special lady such as a single female that has a strong sexual appetite.  I have outlined a few simple rules/steps you can follow to ensure that you and your potential new lady friend have a great time.

So, you’ve exchanged some messages and want to hook up.  Before the meeting, please make sure you have voice verified and confirmed that all parties involved will be available to attend.  Sometimes, people have legitimate excuses for not showing up to a meeting (such as our monthly visitor, right ladies?), but it is not acceptable to simply cancel or flake out on someone last minute.  Make sure that you are punctual.  One gorgeous unicorn friend of mine told me that a couple showed up TWO hours late to meet up with her.  No one likes to wait around so please be respectful and show up on time or let the lady know via txt, email, phone, chat, etc., if you are delayed even 5-10 minutes.

When you meet up, spend a few minutes and talk to each other.  Discuss some fantasies and ask your unicorn friend if she has any limitations.  Listen closely, and honor every request she makes.  If she says she doesn’t want to have penetrative sex, respect that.  If she wants to only play with the woman, don’t try to convince her to be with the man or “move in for the kill.”  It is good to offer your new friend a drink but please, do not drink excessively or try to get her drunk, stoned, high, etc.  If you see her over-drinking, it’s best to take a step back and make sure that she is OK with the threesome, both physically and mentally, before moving forward.  Threesomes are no fun when you’re plastered, or when someone cannot fully perform.

So, now you are all acquainted with each other and hot and horny.  What next?  Well, I usually like to put on a porno in the background and fade out the lights and light up some candles, discretely.  I have had a lot of success with getting people comfortable and ready to break out of their shell by playing a kinky game.  Be creative but not overly aggressive.  You have to let things come naturally.  Start out by breaking out the dirty dice and see how things go from there.  Once the ladies are down to their panties and bra, they will naturally begin to play.  The gentleman may want to stay back and watch for a little out of respect for the unicorn.  When she’s good and ready to play with you, fella, she will let you know.

If you follow these tips and are respectful of your unicorn friend, you will have a great time with her.  And, remember to properly make your exit or excuse yourself at the end of the fun.  No one wants to have that awkward silence after the sex session.  You may want to excuse yourself by saying something like, “Well, we have plans to do x, y, z tomorrow but wanted to thank you for a great time!”  Finally, make sure your new friend is able to get home safely.

There are several rules of thumb one should follow if they are looking to attend a Swingers Club or On-Premise Swingers Party.  The one right up at the top should be:  Always arrive as a couple and always leave as a couple!  Never leave your partner behind!

On-Premise Swingers Parties:  Arrive on time.  It’s not fashionable to turn up late to an On-Premise Swingers Parties.  Couples usually do a lot of mingling in the beginning and are breaking the ice so arriving early gives you the necessary time to ease into the night and not feel rushed or pressured.  The night usually gets going rather quickly and you may make people who have already begun playing feel awkward and uncomfortable.

Be courteous : The swing lifestyle is full of insecurities and uncertainties. Being courteous, honest and open minded can help ease this and make your experiences with new couples more enjoyable.

Be friendly : Be friendly with everyone!  You may find you have other things in common or they may introduce you to people who you are interested in.

Respond to all invitations : Respond to all invitations even if you do no plan on attending.  Reply either by a phone call or email thanking them for the invitation.

Go prepared : Take with you whatever you will need, toothbrush, comb, perfume/aftershave, condoms, robe, liquor etc.  Good grooming is always a plus in this lifestyle.  Always take a robe or negligee with you, you will find it more comfortable as the evening progresses.  Swingers always try to look their best!

Your health and hygiene : The main thing that will turn your potential partners off will be bad breath or body odor.  Swingers pride themselves on looking and feeling good at all times so you should always look and feel your best as well.

Only do what`s fun for you : The whole idea is that you enjoy yourself and that`s why you are in the swingers lifestyle. Do not be pressured into doing anything you do not want to do with anyone you do not want to do it with. Always say no if you do not want to play with that couple or single female or male.   A simple and polite “No, thank you” is all that is needed.

Do not be pushy : If you enjoy swinging with someone let them know in a nice, inviting way and if they say no, it is up to them. If they say no, do not carry on and try to sweet talk them and flirt with them as this can do a lot more harm than good.

Alcohol: Most people like a few drinks at a party.  Drinking socially is fine as it can provide a good social platform to get to know people and it can also help you to relax. Overindulging is not a good thing though as it can hinder ones physical and mental performance and is a turn off for many people.

Practice safe sex : The use of condoms should not offend anyone.  It is simple a means to protect all parties involved.

Do not take someone to a party who is not fully informed : This is an obvious one but never take anyone to a party who does not know what they are getting into as it could be very embarrassing for everyone, and probably will cause problems.

The group room is for group swinging : If you want privacy then we strongly encourage you to not go into the group room and if you take your partner with you into the swinging room you can expect others to ask to join you, obviously you still have the right to refuse.

Do not disturb the swinging enjoyment of others : If you are in a bedroom or the group room, do not disturb the swinging of others with prolonged talk.

Do not be a bedroom cruiser : Don`t walk into bedrooms, peel back curtains, turning on lights and bothering those already playing and having fun.

Enjoy yourself : Probably the most important one!  Approach everything with an open mind and positive attitude and before you know it you will be act ing out all of your fantasies!

Have you experienced meeting a couple on a site such as SexxyMofo and arranged an offline meeting where all involved sat around for a couple of hours making small chit chat while everyone sat there basically looking around the room and at one another wondering who will be brave enough to make the proverbial first move? As many of you may know… WOW, that can be so incredibly awkward. 

Hopefully, there will be at least one person in the group who will take the initative to make that all important first sexual contact. But, if not, here is your chance to be more informed and assume the role of that one person and get the party started. The best way to break the ice is to sexually arouse your partner first. Get the “ball rolling” with your own partner and once everyone starts to get a bit more warmed up, then swap partners.

Many single women who enjoy participating in the swingers lifestyle do not fancy just sitting around but would rather be more aggressive and help intiate the fun. A female joining a couple may want to simply watch them at first before becoming involved. The same scenario is adequate for a male joining a couple. Whatever is agreed upon by all involved is the best way to proceed.

Swinging, sometimes referred to as the swinging lifestyle, has become the topic of many conversations and has been the focus of many shows, such as, Oprah & Tyra.  Many swingers tend to enjoy this lifestyle privately while others live out their fantasies and dreams in a more open forum.

Thousands of swingers clubs and swingers parties have sprung up all over the world to give everyone, who is interested in the lifestyle, a chance to have fun and participate at their own pace. 

The swingers lifestyle is exceptionally unique, incredibly sexxy and very diverse. Some couples are completely open and love anything and everything thrown their way while others enjoy taking it slow and enjoy smaller more intimate encounters. Most swingers live very ordinary lives as doctors, lawyers, teachers and mothers. However, once the weekends roll around look out as they are ready to let loose. Whether it be going to a swingers club or swingers party, attending a private house party, or just having some friends over they are ready to make the best of the evening.

There are many levels of involvement and in certain situations expectations of sexual activity so make sure you know which type of party you are attending before arriving. Maybe you are looking for a hot bisexual female or are looking to exchange spouses. Just be open and honest with those you are swinging with and you are bound to have an amazing time.  Many swingera already know what they enjoy and what they are looking for while others may be new and still finding their way through.

We are always looking for other swingers to share their stories and thoughts about the swingers lifestyle. Once you start meeting all of these new friends we encourage you to invite them to create a profile on SexxyMofo.com so you can keep in touch and continue making new plans to get together.

Soft Swap Swinging – This usually involves either watching another couple or possibly participating without any sexual intercourse. It may also include foreplay with other partners, sometimes including oral sex, but no vaginal penetration will take place. Many couples start off with soft swinging as this is a great way to explore the swingers lifestyle.

Full Swap Swinging – This type of swigning is where  couples swap partners and have sexual intercourse with each other’s partners.  This includes orgies and it is great for exhibitionist and voyeurs , who can show off or just enjoy watching their partner play…

When you enter the swingers lifestyle you must be very health conscious, always practice safe sex and make sure you and your partner are disease free.

More and more people are getting into the swinger lifestyle as this give couples and individuals a break from the every day stresses in their daily life.

Sex is certainly one of the best antidotes to relieve stress. A swinger lifestyle teaches you to give and take pleasure like the way you have never experience before.

Online swinger clubs help you to get in touch and later get in bed with people who are from different regions, locales or even nations.